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When someone we love is sick or dying, most of us don’t know how to show up. We typically go into reaction and want to control the outcome. react from fear. We make assumptions and with quick impulses take on responsibility that was never ours. Then, without realizing it, we begin to lose ourselves in the process.
This entry-level workshop is designed to help you slow down and understand how you’re actually showing up to an incredibly difficult situation.
Together, we explore what it means to be a victim in the face of your situation that is already costing you a certain amount of energy and pain. Not to judge it but to recognize it. Because when you don’t understand what’s happening inside you, inner conflict becomes outer conflict.
You’ll learn how to recognize when you’re giving your power away, why that happens, and what it looks like to begin showing up for yourself instead without trying to save anyone else. If you are going to save someone, save yourself while not quitting on the person who needs you the most!
This is the first step toward having No Unfinished Business!
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Why
It
Matters
When someone we love is sick or dying, most of us are not prepared for what happens inside us. Fear takes over. Old roles come back. We try to control what we can’t, fix what isn’t fixable, or hold everything together at the expense of ourselves. Without realizing it, we slip into survival mode and that’s where unfinished business begins. This workshop matters because how you show up now becomes what you live with later. Understanding your inner reactions early gives you a chance to choose responsibility over reactivity, presence over panic, and integrity over regret before patterns harden and relationships suffer.
three bold, specific takeaways participants will receive
You’ll be able to recognize whether you’re responding from fear and powerlessness or from responsibility and clarity and why that distinction matters.
A Clear Understanding of How You’re Showing Up
You’ll gain simple, grounded language to understand your inner conflict, your reactions, and the emotional patterns that surface during illness, loss, or uncertainty.
Language for What You’re Feeling
You’ll leave knowing what is truly within your control—and how to stop giving your power away in moments when life feels overwhelming.
A First Step Toward Personal Power
What
You’ll
Experience
✔ A calm, grounded environment designed to help you slow down and reflect
✔ Clear, simple concepts explained in human, not clinical language
✔ Real-world examples that make complex emotions easier to understand
✔ Space to observe your patterns without judgment
✔ Gentle guidance toward acceptance, responsibility, and clarity
Stanley Fisher
“And when she passed, my heart was broken but I also felt complete. That is what this work is about. Not perfection, but completion.”
In His Own Words
"When my mom got sick, I didn’t realize how much of my reaction was being driven by fear and old roles I took on as a kid. I thought I was trying to help but what I was really doing was losing myself in the process.
If I hadn’t had support at that time, I would have created more damage internally and in the relationship without even seeing it. What I learned is that unfinished business doesn’t come from what we don’t say. It comes from how we show up when things feel out of our control.
This workshop exists to give people what I didn’t have at the beginning: a way to understand themselves before they try to do anything else.
You don’t need to have all the answers. You don’t need to be strong. You just need to understand who you’re being and decide who you want to be from here."
— Stanley Fisher
Founder, No Unfinished Business
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